Sorry I haven’t updated in over a month. Nothing too exciting has happened, so I couldn’t think of much to write about.
However, during Golden Week over a month ago, I did participate in the Tokyo International Lolita’s first ever flea market. It was actually very successful! I sold a few of my things, and actually made about 30,000 yen! I had to pay 1000 yen to reserve my space for the flea market, so I definitely did well money wise. I wish I could’ve sold more things though, because I still had to bring all the clothes that I didn’t sell back home in my large suitcase.
I’m not giving up lolita entirely when I leave Japan. I put aside four dresses and two blouses that I definitely want to keep, and I figured anything else I keep will depend on how much it will cost to ship it back. I also still have some things that I know I’ll just give/sell to friends right before I leave.
Basically, all I’ve been doing this past month is going through my belongings and clothes and figuring out what I should keep and what I should get rid of. I’ve made multiple trips to second hand stores like Hard-off and Kinji, and I’ve mailed two boxes home so far. It cost me 9,000 yen to send one box, 5,000 yen to send the other. I think if I send any more boxes home, I’m just going to send them by sea-mail, depending on the weight of course, because it’s more economical, even though it takes longer. I actually sent a box full of winter clothes home by sea-mail, which is okay, since I’m not going to need them again for a long while.
I’m also trying to enjoy my final days in Japan, but I feel there’s kind of a mental cloud hovering over me. Part of it has to do with knowing that I’m starting graduate school soon, so I shouldn’t be spending money like every day is pay day. I think another part of it is just a general sadness knowing my time in Japan is coming to an end. Basically, I’m just trying not over think about it, yet still make sure I’m making the proper preparations to go home.
Anyway, I started my paperwork for my return flight home. I had to look up flights, and fill out a paper with flight routes and ticket price estimates. I turned it in last week, and I’m supposed to hear back soon about whether or not any of the flights are approved, and then the Board of Education is supposed to deposit money into my bank account so that I can buy the ticket. I hope I hear back about the money for the flight by at least next week, so that I can go on ahead and purchase my ticket home, because I want to go home as soon as possible, so I can spend time with my family before I go down to Monterey.
It’s also stressful to think about leaving Japan, and looking at housing listings in Monterey at the same time. Mostly because many of the online listings I see now all show move in dates for June, but I won’t be there until August. I have talked to some other incoming Middlebury Students about potentially rooming together. A lot of the people who have messaged me personally are also students who currently living overseas. One os a fellow JET in Japan, and the others are currently living in China, and the Dominican Republic. Basically we’re all looking at listings together, and if anyone sees anything potential for moving in, in August we share the links with each other.
Also, next week, we will find out who our successors are. I’m a little curious to find out who my successor is. I heard some rumors that a lot of incoming American JETs to Saitama are all coming from the bible belt, and that there is an incoming JET who earned a degree at bible school. It’s only a rumor, but, we’ll see what happens.
Well, I’m just going to continue to do my best to prepare my next stage in life, while trying to enjoy my last days in Japan. Here’s hope I don’t have a break down or an existential crisis along the way.